Nicky Perfect BEM.
Former hostage and crisis negotiator turned keynote speaker, communication expert and podcast host.
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With decades of experience in high-stakes negotiations, Nicky reveals the life-changing power of communication and listening in a way that inspires action and real change.
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Audiences leave feeling empowered, connected and ready to handle even the toughest conversations.
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Nicky is also the founder of The Positive Parenting Summit, taking place in May 2027 and bringing together expert speakers and 300 parents for a full day of practical support, better conversations and stronger family relationships.
Work With Nicky
Practical communication skills for real life
Speaking & Training
My Book
Real stories and practical lessons from a career in hostage and crisis negotiation,
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Podcasts
Courses & Webinars
The Let's Talk About Podcast with Nicky Perfect BEM
Real conversations. Practical tools. Better communication.
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Drawing on her experience as a hostage and crisis negotiator, Nicky explores the conversations
that shape our lives, at work, at home and in our relationships.
Through honest conversations, expert insights and real-life stories, each episode will help you listen better,
navigate conflict and approach difficult conversations with greater confidence.
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